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Marriage
1st marriage
On 26th, March 1894 Ham Mukasa married Hannah Mawemuko the
daughter of Mukasa (a former Katiikiro of Buganda). They got
four Children, namely;
Dorothy Nanteza, born on 21/12/1890 married to Nekemiah Sebuliba,
Catherine Nanjobe born in 1904 married to Micheal Kawalya Kaggwa,
Leah Mpomba born in 1908 married to Disan Mukasa, Victoria Sarah
Nalwanga, Mother to Damali wife of Kabaka Muteesa II & Mother to
Sarah who is mother to Kabaka Ronald Mutebi II.
More information related to this marriage
is being gathered.
2nd Marriage
Sarah Nabikolo Mukasa was Ham Mukasa's wife in the second
marriage after the death of his first wife Hannah in 1919. More
information related to the children from this marriage is
accessible through the family tree.
Mrs E S Daniell of Mukono, Uganda had this
to write about Sarah Nabikolo Mukasa
I was recently presented with an article written in 1925 on a
Gayaza old girl, Mrs Sarah Hamu-Mukasa, whose life exemplified
the dreams and objectives of the founders of the school to the
letter. Have a read of this and I hope you will find it
inspiring.
"The God to Whom little boys say their prayers has a face very
like their mother's," and probably every one of us Christian
mothers has been awed by the realization of this thought. It
makes our own failures so much more humiliating; and we turn to
the African mothers around us, who have had far fewer
opportunities of realizing the power of example in the home, and
we wonder if their children in the same way learn what God is
like from their fathers and mothers.
From the windows of our bungalow at Mukono, we can look across
the valley to a new tiled house peeping out from the trees about
two miles away, and it is that home which is a tonic to us all
when we are worried by the mere veneer and the wrongdoing in
some of the so-called Christian homes in Uganda. It is the home
of Ham Mukasa, the Sekibobo of Uganda, and of Sarah his wife; a
home spotless as regards morals, a place where we always expect
and find progress and leadership in all that is for the uplift
of the country. The Sekibobo is well-known in England, where he
made many friends during his two visits in 1902 and 1913, and he
is the author of a book, "With Uganda's Katikiro in England". It
is of his wife and her influence that I want to write now, for
she is showing this generation what the word "home" can mean,
and exemplifying the truth of H.M. King George's words: "The
foundations of national glory are set in the homes of the
people; they will only remain unshaken while the family life of
our nation is strong, simple and pure."
Sarah cannot be more than 25 years old, and is the second wife
of the Sekibobo. She is the daughter of one of the very best
chiefs that Uganda has known, and has had a good home, a good
school training at Gayaza High School and a perfectly happy
marriage.
Seldom do we see yet in Uganda such chums as this husband and
wife. Her sense of humour is delightful, and although she often
wears English dress, and lives in an up-to-date bungalow, she is
keenly jealous of guarding the best of the native customs. For
example, she goes out at sunrise every morning to dig and plant
the household's food supply, helps in cooking the native meals,
and by her example shows other wives who may not have had the
advantage of Gayaza school training the great truth of the
dignity of labour.
Sarah is the secretary of the Mother's Union branch at Mukono,
and has her own M.U. link in England with whom she exchanges
letters in English. These two Christian mothers, one black and
one white, one in Central Africa and one in an old English
cathedral town, find mutual help in daily prayer for one
another's families.
Last year Sarah contributed an article in the Mothers' Union
study booklet, which we use in the diocese, on the subject of
the old custom of mourning for the dead, and there was no
mistaking the sound of the hope that is in her creed! Just
before leaving Uganda in September I went to a Mothers' Union
meeting
At Mukono, some twenty women sat on the floor on clean matting
in Sarah's sitting-room, while I was given a place of honour on
the Chesterfield couch. Sarah gave the address from the words
which she said she wanted me to take home as a message from them
all: "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." One has
only to remember that her own father's early days were spent in
grossest heathenism, to realize what the bringing of Christ into
these homes has meant. The cups of tea and thin bread and butter
that were handed round after the meeting, the English furniture
- all these outward expressions of English life are found in
plenty of homes in Uganda today; but in this home we feel the
presence of Christ Himself, and we thank God and take courage.
There are five children all under six years old; three are
daughters and two are sons. They are most lovable children, and
have been taught to play and amuse themselves all day long. This
little family does not sit about aimlessly! The Sekibobo has
provided them with three tricycles, and has built them a nursery
playhouse in the garden. There they may be found any evening
rushing about on their tricycles over the flat lawns. This
father and mother are keeping a record of the children's
sayings, and the mother types them into a book - quite a heavy
volume now. One of the amusing sights of the week is to see the
children arriving at the mission house on Sunday morning for
Sunday school, either in a side car or in their motor car. The
chauffeur lifts out a stream of little people and little
nursemaids who shake themselves sedately into best Sunday
behaviour, and follow James Hannington, the elder son, into the
house, all armed with little bags containing their collections,
and as ready to chat about the Bible lesson as they are to give
each other advice in the building and other free-play that
always precedes Sunday school.
In spite of all her home-making and frock-making, Sarah finds
time for outside interests. She is co-secretary with an
Englishwoman for one of the jubilee committees, and is a
constant visitor at the girls' day school, where she is a
valuable guide to the native school mistress. Last year, for the
first time that a woman has done such a thing, she came with her
husband to the boys' central school prize-giving, and not only
distributed the prizes, but gave an address also. We who were
there will never forget the simple, earnest words she spoke in
urging the boys to guard well their thoughts during the coming
holidays.
We look upon this home as a product of the influence of a good
home and a good school, and we long for this kind of home to be
multiplied all over Uganda.
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